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		<summary type="html">&lt;p&gt;Ian: added link to jane&amp;#039;s obit&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;== &amp;lt;strong&amp;gt;Greetings!&amp;lt;/strong&amp;gt; ==&lt;br /&gt;
Welcome to JaneQuotes.  This page was set up by [mailto://apc11dj@yahoo.com Ian K. Hagemann] as a way to collect some of the quotes that he learned from his pal Jane E. Hawkins (whose Facebook picture is being used as the logo).  Some of these are going to be paraphrases and some of these are going to be versions of things originally said by other people.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Jane and I got to be friends rather than acquaintances during the course of an argument about suicide that went way past midnight.  Neither of us are afraid to talk about hard things with each other, so some of the quotes I&amp;#039;m contributing are about those kinds of topics.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
This site is intended for those who knew Jane and/or want to learn some of the wisdom she acquired in her life.  Please feel free to contribute any of her sayings that you like.  My preference is to leave them in random order, but feel free to organize them if you absolutely need to do so: just don&amp;#039;t worry about duplicating them in several categories and don&amp;#039;t erase any :-).&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
If you would like to know more about Jane, please visit the [[Obituary|Jane&amp;#039;s Obituary]] page.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Please note that this doesn&amp;#039;t currently require anyone to get a membership in order to edit anything because I didn&amp;#039;t want to impose any barriers to people contributing, but I am recommending that folks go ahead and create accounts if it&amp;#039;s not too difficult.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Thanks go to my partner Sev for hosting this site.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
== &amp;#039;&amp;#039;&amp;#039;Quotes&amp;#039;&amp;#039;&amp;#039; (in random order) ==&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Resentment is allowing other people to live in your brain rent-free.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Everybody gets a limited number of &amp;#039;eccentricity points.&amp;#039;  But if you use too many of them, then additional eccentricities turn into &amp;#039;weirdness points,&amp;#039; and things that used to seem eccentric start to seem weird.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I might always be deluding myself, but I think you ought to see if my thoughts about myself are accurate before dismissing them out of hand.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
[About her depression]: &amp;quot;Ten years of purgatory and five years of hell.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
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[About her cancer]: &amp;quot;I figure I lost more years to depression than I did to cancer.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
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[About relationships]: &amp;quot;If it wasn&amp;#039;t going to work with Luke, it wasn&amp;#039;t going to work.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I didn&amp;#039;t ask every woman I knew, but every woman I ever asked about it said she&amp;#039;d been raped.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
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&amp;quot;I was in the first class [at her college] that allowed women to study to be engineers.  It was rough, but at least we could check with each other about whether the professors were biased against us.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I really wanted to get published before I was 40.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Between black and white is not just gray but all the colors of the rainbow.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Sometimes there can be a rape without a [person who intends to be a] rapist.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
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&amp;quot;I saw a scapegoating dynamic start up every year that I observed at Clarion West.  It didn&amp;#039;t always get fully developed, but it always got started.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I put aside five years&amp;#039; worth of living expenses and then I quit my job.  They had to hire three people to replace me, and some of my coworkers were shocked that I left.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
[about Ian, who contributed this quote]: &amp;quot;We&amp;#039;re both in the &amp;#039;crazy mommy&amp;#039; club.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;It&amp;#039;s hard to recognize anger when it only looks like &amp;#039;mommy out of control.&amp;#039;&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;There&amp;#039;s no real studies about the lung cancer risk for folks who smoke about a pack a week, like I do.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
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&amp;quot;One time, I was playing Boggle and someone came by to say &amp;#039;Hey, look: you &amp;lt;u&amp;gt;can&amp;lt;/u&amp;gt; get enough sex.&amp;#039;&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;My favorite way to screen partners (around monogamy, which Jane didn&amp;#039;t practice) was to tell them stories about my life and see how they reacted.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Only one person knew ahead of time about the fact that Luke and I were going to get married at Janecon, and I only told her because she wasn&amp;#039;t going to be there otherwise.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
One of the panels at Janecon [the convention that Jane threw where she married Luke] was &amp;quot;Eileen Gunn talks about whatever she wants to.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;At the end of her life, she was just &amp;#039;Phyllis.&amp;#039; to me.&amp;quot; [Jane started using the name Phyllis instead of &amp;quot;mom&amp;quot; to refer to the woman who birthed and raised Jane.  Jane also took care of Phyllis in Jane&amp;#039;s own home through the end of her life].&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;If someone tells you that you have to choose between them and X, choose X&amp;quot; [I refer to this as &amp;quot;Hawkins&amp;#039; Law,&amp;quot; and it has saved me many times.]&lt;br /&gt;
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&amp;quot;I&amp;#039;m ashamed that my nation dropped bombs on the poorest people. We could have given them money instead.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
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&amp;quot;The Democratic Party and the Republican Party were like Coke and Pepsi.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
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&amp;quot;The internet was created by men&amp;#039;s desire to kill and f*ck.&amp;quot; [Because the internet was first invented for the military, and the first websites that helped gaining its popularity were porn sites].&lt;br /&gt;
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&amp;quot;When I saw that plane crashed into the building, I was on the floor crying and saying that: &amp;#039;We are going to go to war. We are going to go to war with the wrong people.&amp;#039;&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
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&amp;quot;The &amp;#039;Wow -- heavy&amp;#039; approach many people take to such things as Zen annoys me. To each their own, I guess, but for me it is not &amp;#039;heavy.&amp;#039; It is lovely, joyous -- and humorous.  After my closest approach to understanding thus far, I laughed aloud, chuckled for hours and smiled for days. The glorious, loving humor of the world flabbergasts me.”&lt;br /&gt;
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		<updated>2022-01-09T02:23:03Z</updated>

		<summary type="html">&lt;p&gt;Ian: Protected &amp;quot;Obituary&amp;quot;: This is Jane&amp;#039;s official obituary and was okayed by her. ([Edit=Allow only administrators] (indefinite) [Move=Allow only administrators] (indefinite))&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;Jane E. Hawkins was born to Phyllis Hawkins and Ken Hawkins on March 11, 1951, in Davenport, Iowa. She developed her own mathematical notational system before taking algebra, won the science fair for some mathematical work, and received a letter addressed to &amp;quot;Dr. Hawkins&amp;quot; after sending a letter to a college professor about prime factoring when she was in high school.  She was part of the first engineering class that admitted women at Case University (now Case Western Reserve University), and remained lifelong friends with her college roommate Denise DiFillipo.  Jane was hired by Bell Labs before graduating near the top of her class, and they paid for Jane&amp;#039;s Master&amp;#039;s Degree at Columbia University.  The Phone Company had to replace Jane with three people after she left the minicomputer operation, but she stayed with the Company until she had enough money saved up to live for five years.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
She moved to Seattle specifically in search of a place where she could find community.  A life-long science fiction fan, some of Jane&amp;#039;s proudest and happiest moments were of welcoming people to the community and of working on the things that brought people together.  In her early years, she hosted a number of room parties at the conventions she attended, some of which were more popular than the Convention&amp;#039;s official Con Suite.  She then began to volunteer and eventually run such official Con Suites at a number of conventions including Corflu and alt.polycon.  She also organized and frequently hosted a monthly get-together of fans, writers, and editors in the Seattle area.  She was on the committee that founded Norwescon, ran their Art Show for the first three years, and was honored as the Fan Guest of Honor at that convention many years later.  She also ran the art show at the Seattle World Fantasy Convention.  She worked for years on the programming committee at Wiscon, a Feminist Science Fiction Convention where she developed and maintained their first database and was on the Safety Team.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Jane organized Janecon in 1989, where she married Luke McGuff at the Banquet.  The two divorced amicably several years later, but the event remains a fond memory for those who attended the convention.  Jane also Chaired the Potlatch literary science fiction convention in 1992, which went on to become an annual convention that travelled up and down the West Coast for over 20 years, with Jane working the Con suite every time it was in Seattle.  Jane also helped put on CroneCon, a gathering of friends and family for herself and her friends Jeanne Gomoll, Debbie Notkin, and Donya White that was held the year that they all turned 50.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Jane was a good friend to many people, and was proud of the ways she helped other people be more themselves.  Jane was present when her friend Judy gave birth to Sam Kaplan, stayed with Judy for some time after the birth, and stayed in touch with Sam throughout his life. She also stayed with a number of people and helped them transition at the end of their lives, including Mary Mairet, Anita Rowland, Anna Vargo, Phyllis Hawkins.  Most recently, Jane provided this support to Vonda N. McIntyre, Jane’s housemate or next-door neighbor between 1978 and Vonda&amp;#039;s death in 2019).&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Jane had low-grade depression for most of her life, and became severely depressed in the late 1990s.  This touched off a period that she described as &amp;quot;ten years of Purgatory and five years of Hell,&amp;quot; during which she lost touch with most of the people in her life. She eventually found relief through the regular use of psilocybin mushrooms, and was able to reconnect with many of the friends who had become estranged before the end of her life.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
A survivor of multiple cancers, Jane received a terminal diagnosis and went into hospice care in late 2021.  A lifelong supporter of death with dignity who was now facing a life where she could not be awake and coherent without excruciating pain, Jane chose to medically end her own life on Friday, January 7th, 2022.  She was attended by her sister Jo Hawkins and Jane’s friends Amber Hackney, Glenn Hackney, Ian K. Hagemann (this writer), Ole Kvern, Kate Schaefer, and Rachel Yamagiwa.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Jane is remembered for her excellent fudge (made using the recipe from &amp;#039;&amp;#039;The Joy of Cooking&amp;#039;&amp;#039;), her wisdom, her generosity, and her humor. Surviving biological family members include her sister Jo Hawkins, Jo&amp;#039;s son Dolphin.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
If you are troubled by thoughts of suicide, please remember that the National Suicide Hotline is available at 1-800-293-8255, 24 hours a day and 7 days a week.&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
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		<updated>2022-01-09T02:19:49Z</updated>

		<summary type="html">&lt;p&gt;Ian: Created Obituary Page&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;Jane E. Hawkins was born to Phyllis Hawkins and Ken Hawkins on March 11, 1951, in Davenport, Iowa. She developed her own mathematical notational system before taking algebra, won the science fair for some mathematical work, and received a letter addressed to &amp;quot;Dr. Hawkins&amp;quot; after sending a letter to a college professor about prime factoring when she was in high school.  She was part of the first engineering class that admitted women at Case University (now Case Western Reserve University), and remained lifelong friends with her college roommate Denise DiFillipo.  Jane was hired by Bell Labs before graduating near the top of her class, and they paid for Jane&amp;#039;s Master&amp;#039;s Degree at Columbia University.  The Phone Company had to replace Jane with three people after she left the minicomputer operation, but she stayed with the Company until she had enough money saved up to live for five years.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
She moved to Seattle specifically in search of a place where she could find community.  A life-long science fiction fan, some of Jane&amp;#039;s proudest and happiest moments were of welcoming people to the community and of working on the things that brought people together.  In her early years, she hosted a number of room parties at the conventions she attended, some of which were more popular than the Convention&amp;#039;s official Con Suite.  She then began to volunteer and eventually run such official Con Suites at a number of conventions including Corflu and alt.polycon.  She also organized and frequently hosted a monthly get-together of fans, writers, and editors in the Seattle area.  She was on the committee that founded Norwescon, ran their Art Show for the first three years, and was honored as the Fan Guest of Honor at that convention many years later.  She also ran the art show at the Seattle World Fantasy Convention.  She worked for years on the programming committee at Wiscon, a Feminist Science Fiction Convention where she developed and maintained their first database and was on the Safety Team.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Jane organized Janecon in 1989, where she married Luke McGuff at the Banquet.  The two divorced amicably several years later, but the event remains a fond memory for those who attended the convention.  Jane also Chaired the Potlatch literary science fiction convention in 1992, which went on to become an annual convention that travelled up and down the West Coast for over 20 years, with Jane working the Con suite every time it was in Seattle.  Jane also helped put on CroneCon, a gathering of friends and family for herself and her friends Jeanne Gomoll, Debbie Notkin, and Donya White that was held the year that they all turned 50.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Jane was a good friend to many people, and was proud of the ways she helped other people be more themselves.  Jane was present when her friend Judy gave birth to Sam Kaplan, stayed with Judy for some time after the birth, and stayed in touch with Sam throughout his life. She also stayed with a number of people and helped them transition at the end of their lives, including Mary Mairet, Anita Rowland, Anna Vargo, Phyllis Hawkins.  Most recently, Jane provided this support to Vonda N. McIntyre, Jane’s housemate or next-door neighbor between 1978 and Vonda&amp;#039;s death in 2019).&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Jane had low-grade depression for most of her life, and became severely depressed in the late 1990s.  This touched off a period that she described as &amp;quot;ten years of Purgatory and five years of Hell,&amp;quot; during which she lost touch with most of the people in her life. She eventually found relief through the regular use of psilocybin mushrooms, and was able to reconnect with many of the friends who had become estranged before the end of her life.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
A survivor of multiple cancers, Jane received a terminal diagnosis and went into hospice care in late 2021.  A lifelong supporter of death with dignity who was now facing a life where she could not be awake and coherent without excruciating pain, Jane chose to medically end her own life on Friday, January 7th, 2022.  She was attended by her sister Jo Hawkins and Jane’s friends Amber Hackney, Glenn Hackney, Ian K. Hagemann (this writer), Ole Kvern, Kate Schaefer, and Rachel Yamagiwa.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Jane is remembered for her excellent fudge (made using the recipe from &amp;#039;&amp;#039;The Joy of Cooking&amp;#039;&amp;#039;), her wisdom, her generosity, and her humor. Surviving biological family members include her sister Jo Hawkins, Jo&amp;#039;s son Dolphin.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
If you are troubled by thoughts of suicide, please remember that the National Suicide Hotline is available at 1-800-293-8255, 24 hours a day and 7 days a week.&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
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		<updated>2022-01-06T18:20:53Z</updated>

		<summary type="html">&lt;p&gt;Ian: Fix dates&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;== &amp;lt;strong&amp;gt;Greetings!&amp;lt;/strong&amp;gt; ==&lt;br /&gt;
Welcome to JaneQuotes.  This page was set up by [mailto://apc11dj@yahoo.com Ian K. Hagemann] as a way to collect some of the quotes that he learned from his pal Jane E. Hawkins (whose Facebook picture is being used as the logo).  Some of these are going to be paraphrases and some of these are going to be versions of things originally said by other people.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Jane and I got to be friends rather than acquaintances during the course of an argument about suicide that went way past midnight.  Neither of us are afraid to talk about hard things with each other, so some of the quotes I&amp;#039;m contributing are about those kinds of topics.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
This site is intended for those who knew Jane and/or want to learn some of the wisdom she acquired in her life.  Please feel free to contribute any of her sayings that you like.  My preference is to leave them in random order, but feel free to organize them if you absolutely need to do so: just don&amp;#039;t worry about duplicating them in several categories and don&amp;#039;t erase any :-).&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Please note that this doesn&amp;#039;t currently require anyone to get a membership in order to edit anything because I didn&amp;#039;t want to impose any barriers to people contributing, but I am recommending that folks go ahead and create accounts if it&amp;#039;s not too difficult.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Thanks go to my partner Sev for hosting this site.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
== &amp;#039;&amp;#039;&amp;#039;Quotes&amp;#039;&amp;#039;&amp;#039; (in random order) ==&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Resentment is allowing other people to live in your brain rent-free.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Everybody gets a limited number of &amp;#039;eccentricity points.&amp;#039;  But if you use too many of them, then additional eccentricities turn into &amp;#039;weirdness points,&amp;#039; and things that used to seem eccentric start to seem weird.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I might always be deluding myself, but I think you ought to see if my thoughts about myself are accurate before dismissing them out of hand.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
[About her depression]: &amp;quot;Ten years of purgatory and five years of hell.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
[About her cancer]: &amp;quot;I figure I lost more years to depression than I did to cancer.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
[About relationships]: &amp;quot;If it wasn&amp;#039;t going to work with Luke, it wasn&amp;#039;t going to work.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I didn&amp;#039;t ask every woman I knew, but every woman I ever asked about it said she&amp;#039;d been raped.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I was in the first class [at her college] that allowed women to study to be engineers.  It was rough, but at least we could check with each other about whether the professors were biased against us.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I really wanted to get published before I was 40.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Between black and white is not just gray but all the colors of the rainbow.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Sometimes there can be a rape without a [person who intends to be a] rapist.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I saw a scapegoating dynamic start up every year that I observed at Clarion West.  It didn&amp;#039;t always get fully developed, but it always got started.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I put aside five years&amp;#039; worth of living expenses and then I quit my job.  They had to hire three people to replace me, and some of my coworkers were shocked that I left.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
[about Ian, who contributed this quote]: &amp;quot;We&amp;#039;re both in the &amp;#039;crazy mommy&amp;#039; club.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;It&amp;#039;s hard to recognize anger when it only looks like &amp;#039;mommy out of control.&amp;#039;&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;There&amp;#039;s no real studies about the lung cancer risk for folks who smoke about a pack a week, like I do.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;One time, I was playing Boggle and someone came by to say &amp;#039;Hey, look: you &amp;lt;u&amp;gt;can&amp;lt;/u&amp;gt; get enough sex.&amp;#039;&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;My favorite way to screen partners (around monogamy, which Jane didn&amp;#039;t practice) was to tell them stories about my life and see how they reacted.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Only one person knew ahead of time about the fact that Luke and I were going to get married at Janecon, and I only told her because she wasn&amp;#039;t going to be there otherwise.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
One of the panels at Janecon [the convention that Jane threw where she married Luke] was &amp;quot;Eileen Gunn talks about whatever she wants to.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;At the end of her life, she was just &amp;#039;Phyllis.&amp;#039; to me.&amp;quot; [Jane started using the name Phyllis instead of &amp;quot;mom&amp;quot; to refer to the woman who birthed and raised Jane.  Jane also took care of Phyllis in Jane&amp;#039;s own home through the end of her life].&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;If someone tells you that you have to choose between them and X, choose X&amp;quot; [I refer to this as &amp;quot;Hawkins&amp;#039; Law,&amp;quot; and it has saved me many times.]&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I&amp;#039;m ashamed that my nation dropped bombs on the poorest people. We could have given them money instead.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;The Democratic Party and the Republican Party were like Coke and Pepsi.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;The internet was created by men&amp;#039;s desire to kill and f*ck.&amp;quot; [Because the internet was first invented for the military, and the first websites that helped gaining its popularity were porn sites].&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;When I saw that plane crashed into the building, I was on the floor crying and saying that: &amp;#039;We are going to go to war. We are going to go to war with the wrong people.&amp;#039;&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;The &amp;#039;Wow -- heavy&amp;#039; approach many people take to such things as Zen annoys me. To each their own, I guess, but for me it is not &amp;#039;heavy.&amp;#039; It is lovely, joyous -- and humorous.  After my closest approach to understanding thus far, I laughed aloud, chuckled for hours and smiled for days. The glorious, loving humor of the world flabbergasts me.”&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
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		<author><name>Ian</name></author>
	</entry>
	<entry>
		<id>http://janequotes.byz.org/index.php?title=Main_Page&amp;diff=7</id>
		<title>Main Page</title>
		<link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://janequotes.byz.org/index.php?title=Main_Page&amp;diff=7"/>
		<updated>2021-12-12T18:13:27Z</updated>

		<summary type="html">&lt;p&gt;Ian: Added information about accounts to Greetings and thanked Sev.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;hr /&gt;
&lt;div&gt;== &amp;lt;strong&amp;gt;Greetings!&amp;lt;/strong&amp;gt; ==&lt;br /&gt;
Welcome to JaneQuotes.  This page was set up by [mailto://apc11dj@yahoo.com Ian K. Hagemann] as a way to collect some of the quotes that he learned from his pal Jane E. Hawkins (whose Facebook picture is being used as the logo).  Some of these are going to be paraphrases and some of these are going to be versions of things originally said by other people.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Jane and I got to be friends rather than acquaintances during the course of an argument about suicide that went way past midnight.  Neither of us are afraid to talk about hard things with each other, so some of the quotes I&amp;#039;m contributing are about those kinds of topics.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
This site is intended for those who knew Jane and/or want to learn some of the wisdom she acquired in her life.  Please feel free to contribute any of her sayings that you like.  My preference is to leave them in random order, but feel free to organize them if you absolutely need to do so: just don&amp;#039;t worry about duplicating them in several categories and don&amp;#039;t erase any :-).&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Please note that this doesn&amp;#039;t currently require anyone to get a membership in order to edit anything because I didn&amp;#039;t want to impose any barriers to people contributing, but I am recommending that folks go ahead and create accounts if it&amp;#039;s not too difficult.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Thanks go to my partner Sev for hosting this site.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
== &amp;#039;&amp;#039;&amp;#039;Quotes&amp;#039;&amp;#039;&amp;#039; (in random order) ==&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Resentment is allowing other people to live in your brain rent-free.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Everybody gets a limited number of &amp;#039;eccentricity points.&amp;#039;  But if you use too many of them, then additional eccentricities turn into &amp;#039;weirdness points,&amp;#039; and things that used to seem eccentric start to seem weird.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I might always be deluding myself, but I think you ought to see if my thoughts about myself are accurate before dismissing them out of hand.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
[About her depression]: &amp;quot;Five years of purgatory and ten years of hell.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
[About relationships]: &amp;quot;If it wasn&amp;#039;t going to work with Luke, it wasn&amp;#039;t going to work.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I didn&amp;#039;t ask every woman I knew, but every woman I ever asked about it said she&amp;#039;d been raped.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I was in the first class [at her college] that allowed women to study to be engineers.  It was rough, but at least we could check with each other about whether the professors were biased against us.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I really wanted to get published before I was 40.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Between black and white is not just gray but all the colors of the rainbow.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Sometimes there can be a rape without a [person who intends to be a] rapist.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I saw a scapegoating dynamic start up every year that I observed at Clarion West.  It didn&amp;#039;t always get fully developed, but it always got started.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I put aside five years&amp;#039; worth of living expenses and then I quit my job.  They had to hire three people to replace me, and some of my coworkers were shocked that I left.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
[about Ian, who contributed this quote]: &amp;quot;We&amp;#039;re both in the &amp;#039;crazy mommy&amp;#039; club.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;It&amp;#039;s hard to recognize anger when it only looks like &amp;#039;mommy out of control.&amp;#039;&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;There&amp;#039;s no real studies about the lung cancer risk for folks who smoke about a pack a week, like I do.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;One time, I was playing Boggle and someone came by to say &amp;#039;Hey, look: you &amp;lt;u&amp;gt;can&amp;lt;/u&amp;gt; get enough sex.&amp;#039;&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;My favorite way to screen partners (around monogamy, which Jane didn&amp;#039;t practice) was to tell them stories about my life and see how they reacted.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Only one person knew ahead of time about the fact that Luke and I were going to get married at Janecon, and I only told her because she wasn&amp;#039;t going to be there otherwise.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
One of the panels at Janecon [the convention that Jane threw where she married Luke] was &amp;quot;Eileen Gunn talks about whatever she wants to.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;At the end of her life, she was just &amp;#039;Phyllis.&amp;#039; to me.&amp;quot; [Jane started using the name Phyllis instead of &amp;quot;mom&amp;quot; to refer to the woman who birthed and raised Jane.  Jane also took care of Phyllis in Jane&amp;#039;s own home through the end of her life].&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
== Technical Notes. ==&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;
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		<author><name>Ian</name></author>
	</entry>
	<entry>
		<id>http://janequotes.byz.org/index.php?title=Main_Page&amp;diff=6</id>
		<title>Main Page</title>
		<link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://janequotes.byz.org/index.php?title=Main_Page&amp;diff=6"/>
		<updated>2021-12-12T18:07:17Z</updated>

		<summary type="html">&lt;p&gt;Ian: minor quote revision&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;hr /&gt;
&lt;div&gt;== &amp;lt;strong&amp;gt;Greetings!&amp;lt;/strong&amp;gt; ==&lt;br /&gt;
Welcome to JaneQuotes.  This page was set up by [mailto://apc11dj@yahoo.com Ian K. Hagemann] as a way to collect some of the quotes that he learned from his pal Jane E. Hawkins (whose Facebook picture is being used as the logo).  Some of these are going to be paraphrases and some of these are going to be versions of things originally said by other people.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Jane and I got to be friends rather than acquaintances during the course of an argument about suicide that went way past midnight.  Neither of us are afraid to talk about hard things with each other, so some of the quotes I&amp;#039;m contributing are about those kinds of topics.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
This site is intended for those who knew Jane and/or want to learn some of the wisdom she acquired in her life.  Please feel free to contribute any of her sayings that you like.  My preference is to leave them in random order, but feel free to organize them if you absolutely need to do so: just don&amp;#039;t worry about duplicating them in several categories and don&amp;#039;t erase any :-).&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
== &amp;#039;&amp;#039;&amp;#039;Quotes&amp;#039;&amp;#039;&amp;#039; (in random order) ==&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Resentment is allowing other people to live in your brain rent-free.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Everybody gets a limited number of &amp;#039;eccentricity points.&amp;#039;  But if you use too many of them, then additional eccentricities turn into &amp;#039;weirdness points,&amp;#039; and things that used to seem eccentric start to seem weird.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I might always be deluding myself, but I think you ought to see if my thoughts about myself are accurate before dismissing them out of hand.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
[About her depression]: &amp;quot;Five years of purgatory and ten years of hell.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
[About relationships]: &amp;quot;If it wasn&amp;#039;t going to work with Luke, it wasn&amp;#039;t going to work.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I didn&amp;#039;t ask every woman I knew, but every woman I ever asked about it said she&amp;#039;d been raped.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I was in the first class [at her college] that allowed women to study to be engineers.  It was rough, but at least we could check with each other about whether the professors were biased against us.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I really wanted to get published before I was 40.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Between black and white is not just gray but all the colors of the rainbow.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Sometimes there can be a rape without a [person who intends to be a] rapist.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I saw a scapegoating dynamic start up every year that I observed at Clarion West.  It didn&amp;#039;t always get fully developed, but it always got started.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I put aside five years&amp;#039; worth of living expenses and then I quit my job.  They had to hire three people to replace me, and some of my coworkers were shocked that I left.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
[about Ian, who contributed this quote]: &amp;quot;We&amp;#039;re both in the &amp;#039;crazy mommy&amp;#039; club.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;It&amp;#039;s hard to recognize anger when it only looks like &amp;#039;mommy out of control.&amp;#039;&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;There&amp;#039;s no real studies about the lung cancer risk for folks who smoke about a pack a week, like I do.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;One time, I was playing Boggle and someone came by to say &amp;#039;Hey, look: you &amp;lt;u&amp;gt;can&amp;lt;/u&amp;gt; get enough sex.&amp;#039;&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;My favorite way to screen partners (around monogamy, which Jane didn&amp;#039;t practice) was to tell them stories about my life and see how they reacted.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Only one person knew ahead of time about the fact that Luke and I were going to get married at Janecon, and I only told her because she wasn&amp;#039;t going to be there otherwise.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
One of the panels at Janecon [the convention that Jane threw where she married Luke] was &amp;quot;Eileen Gunn talks about whatever she wants to.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;At the end of her life, she was just &amp;#039;Phyllis.&amp;#039; to me.&amp;quot; [Jane started using the name Phyllis instead of &amp;quot;mom&amp;quot; to refer to the woman who birthed and raised Jane.  Jane also took care of Phyllis in Jane&amp;#039;s own home through the end of her life].&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
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&amp;#039;&amp;#039;These were automatically generated by the Wiki Software when this page was originally set up.  Please leave them here for those of us who aren&amp;#039;t Wiki experts.&amp;#039;&amp;#039; &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;lt;strong&amp;gt;MediaWiki has been installed.&amp;lt;/strong&amp;gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;
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		<author><name>Ian</name></author>
	</entry>
	<entry>
		<id>http://janequotes.byz.org/index.php?title=Main_Page&amp;diff=5</id>
		<title>Main Page</title>
		<link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://janequotes.byz.org/index.php?title=Main_Page&amp;diff=5"/>
		<updated>2021-12-10T20:13:05Z</updated>

		<summary type="html">&lt;p&gt;Ian: Additional quote&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;hr /&gt;
&lt;div&gt;== &amp;lt;strong&amp;gt;Greetings!&amp;lt;/strong&amp;gt; ==&lt;br /&gt;
Welcome to JaneQuotes.  This page was set up by [mailto://apc11dj@yahoo.com Ian K. Hagemann] as a way to collect some of the quotes that he learned from his pal Jane E. Hawkins (whose Facebook picture is being used as the logo).  Some of these are going to be paraphrases and some of these are going to be versions of things originally said by other people.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Jane and I got to be friends rather than acquaintances during the course of an argument about suicide that went way past midnight.  Neither of us are afraid to talk about hard things with each other, so some of the quotes I&amp;#039;m contributing are about those kinds of topics.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
This site is intended for those who knew Jane and/or want to learn some of the wisdom she acquired in her life.  Please feel free to contribute any of her sayings that you like.  My preference is to leave them in random order, but feel free to organize them if you absolutely need to do so: just don&amp;#039;t worry about duplicating them in several categories and don&amp;#039;t erase any :-).&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
== &amp;#039;&amp;#039;&amp;#039;Quotes&amp;#039;&amp;#039;&amp;#039; (in random order) ==&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Resentment is allowing other people to live in your brain rent-free.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Everybody gets a limited number of &amp;#039;eccentricity points.&amp;#039;  But if you use too many of them, then additional eccentricities turn into &amp;#039;weirdness points,&amp;#039; and things that used to seem eccentric start to seem weird.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I might always be deluding myself, but I think you ought to see if my thoughts about myself are accurate before dismissing them out of hand.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
[About her depression]: &amp;quot;Five years of purgatory and ten years of hell.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
[About relationships]: &amp;quot;If it wasn&amp;#039;t going to work with Luke, it wasn&amp;#039;t going to work.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I didn&amp;#039;t ask every woman I knew, but every woman I ever asked about it said she&amp;#039;d been raped.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I was in the first class [at her college] that allowed women to study to be engineers.  It was rough, but at least we could check with each other about whether the professors were biased against us.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I really wanted to get published before I was 40.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Between black and white are all the colors of the rainbow.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Sometimes there can be a rape without a [person who intends to be a] rapist.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I saw a scapegoating dynamic start up every year that I observed at Clarion West.  It didn&amp;#039;t always get fully developed, but it always got started.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;I put aside five years&amp;#039; worth of living expenses and then I quit my job.  They had to hire three people to replace me, and some of my coworkers were shocked that I left.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
[about Ian, who contributed this quote]: &amp;quot;We&amp;#039;re both in the &amp;#039;crazy mommy&amp;#039; club.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;It&amp;#039;s hard to recognize anger when it only looks like &amp;#039;mommy out of control.&amp;#039;&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;There&amp;#039;s no real studies about the lung cancer risk for folks who smoke about a pack a week, like I do.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;One time, I was playing Boggle and someone came by to say &amp;#039;Hey, look: you &amp;lt;u&amp;gt;can&amp;lt;/u&amp;gt; get enough sex.&amp;#039;&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;My favorite way to screen partners (around monogamy, which Jane didn&amp;#039;t practice) was to tell them stories about my life and see how they reacted.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Only one person knew ahead of time about the fact that Luke and I were going to get married at Janecon, and I only told her because she wasn&amp;#039;t going to be there otherwise.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
One of the panels at Janecon [the convention that Jane threw where she married Luke] was &amp;quot;Eileen Gunn talks about whatever she wants to.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;At the end of her life, she was just &amp;#039;Phyllis.&amp;#039; to me.&amp;quot; [Jane started using the name Phyllis instead of &amp;quot;mom&amp;quot; to refer to the woman who birthed and raised Jane.  Jane also took care of Phyllis in Jane&amp;#039;s own home through the end of her life].&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
== Technical Notes. ==&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;#039;&amp;#039;These were automatically generated by the Wiki Software when this page was originally set up.  Please leave them here for those of us who aren&amp;#039;t Wiki experts.&amp;#039;&amp;#039; &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;lt;strong&amp;gt;MediaWiki has been installed.&amp;lt;/strong&amp;gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Consult the [https://www.mediawiki.org/wiki/Special:MyLanguage/Help:Contents User&amp;#039;s Guide] for information on using the wiki software.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
== Getting started ==&lt;br /&gt;
* [https://www.mediawiki.org/wiki/Special:MyLanguage/Manual:Configuration_settings Configuration settings list]&lt;br /&gt;
* [https://www.mediawiki.org/wiki/Special:MyLanguage/Manual:FAQ MediaWiki FAQ]&lt;br /&gt;
* [https://lists.wikimedia.org/postorius/lists/mediawiki-announce.lists.wikimedia.org/ MediaWiki release mailing list]&lt;br /&gt;
* [https://www.mediawiki.org/wiki/Special:MyLanguage/Localisation#Translation_resources Localise MediaWiki for your language]&lt;br /&gt;
* [https://www.mediawiki.org/wiki/Special:MyLanguage/Manual:Combating_spam Learn how to combat spam on your wiki]&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
		<author><name>Ian</name></author>
	</entry>
	<entry>
		<id>http://janequotes.byz.org/index.php?title=File:Jane_FB.png&amp;diff=4</id>
		<title>File:Jane FB.png</title>
		<link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://janequotes.byz.org/index.php?title=File:Jane_FB.png&amp;diff=4"/>
		<updated>2021-12-09T00:05:12Z</updated>

		<summary type="html">&lt;p&gt;Ian: Jane&amp;#039;s Picture from Facebook&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;hr /&gt;
&lt;div&gt;== Summary ==&lt;br /&gt;
Jane&amp;#039;s Picture from Facebook&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
		<author><name>Ian</name></author>
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